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   "The next best thing is loneliness."

   Family members are also lonely, isn\'t it surprising? The patient\'s family members are not sick, how can they be lonely?

"Family accompany the patient, and they need to support the patient, but if there is no one to support the family, the family is actually fighting alone in the society." Li Yaxi said here, thinking of the reality of her mother escaping her hospitalization in the past, not to come The hospital accompanies her, I am afraid that is the reason, plus the third family member\'s psychological characteristics to be talked about below is panic.

   Don\'t think that only the patient will be afraid of life and death. The fear of family members facing the death of their family members is unimaginable to outsiders. It\'s not that he will die, but watching his family die is like a soldier seeing his comrades dying in front of him.

   It can be said that life is afraid of loneliness, loneliness and panic coexist.

   There is another kind of family emotion that is common clinically, which is the "hostility" shown by Zhang Li and Liu Jinyin today.

Isn\'t    more and more surprising to the extreme.

  Hostility is a clinically common psychological feature of family members. No wonder the clinical teachers have long been aware of this, because they understand science.

   Hostility must first be related to cognition. Non-medical students have a relatively one-sided understanding of medicine, and some inexplicable rumors are spreading and smearing, and some family members have weak ability to withstand pressure. Combine these three other factors, and it\'s all too easy to turn hostile. Moreover, hostility is not necessarily directed against medical staff.

  Analyzing these mental states is helpful for human beings to see themselves like a mirror. Researchers believe that humans are not unconscious, but are often lost in the maze.

   "Doctor Xie, have you seen any other striking psychological characteristics of family members in clinical practice? Your doctor has a lot of contact with patients, so it should be clearer." Li Yaxi asked. Her research goal is to unearth more psychological problems in clinical family members. The sooner the problem is discovered, the sooner it can be intervened to avoid a tragedy like hers.

   The patient\'s family members greatly affect the patient\'s mentality.

   I chose to do research in pediatrics because my instructor said that in pediatrics, patients or their families are more likely to express their emotions and expose psychological problems than adult wards.

   The other party\'s question reminded Xie Wanying of herself for the first time. I am also a family member of a patient, and a family member of a reborn patient. Her biggest psychological feature is: guilt.

   Was she the only family member of the patient who felt guilty. Certainly not. It can always be seen clinically, and it is often seen in pediatrics that parents of children cry and say sorry for their children.

   "Yes!" Li Yaxi was awakened by her words and said, "I met a child\'s mother in the ward today and said sorry. I thought she was saying sorry for the child, but it wasn\'t."

  The guilt of the family members is not only for the sickness of the patient, but also for other family members, and even has a deep sense of guilt for "strangers". Who is this "stranger", the donor.

   Don\'t think of all family members as Zhang family members. The Zhang family is a minority among the minority. Most people are kind-hearted. I am not only grateful but also deeply ashamed of the donors, thinking that I did not take care of my family well and got others to donate in need.

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